No worries! I know I can get irked by definition questions but you’re right on this one—Google isn’t much help when it comes to middles and bigs, as they are talked about WAY less in kink.
Littles are the youngest of the three, they usually are the ones who like pacifiers, coloring, or even diapers in some cases (though, it’s a hard limit, personally.). Middles are a bit older. Think around 6-12 age range. Give or take. And bigs can go up to the age of eighteen. Usually pre-teen or teenage age.
The identity just depends on what the person perceives as their age in this particular kink, but not everyone has a set age. Personally, I get into littlespace (the head-space of a little) but I don’t have a strict age. I just do it when I want pampering, attention, kid snacks, and Disney movies. I don’t have the completely alter-ego of a little with her own identity, she is just a symbolic part of me.
I hope this helps.
Incidentally, Dom-in-Training (aren’t we all still in training?) here, love your tumblr. So very informative. Erotic. Hits all the right buttons.
Thank you! I appreciate the message. I try my best, but some people seem to forget I am a full-time student with a part-time job who can only commit so much to this blog. I think I do a lot for it, though, with the resources I have. And I’m glad to have people like you who can appreciate it without insulting me for how they perceive my replies.
you ever look at a kink and think “nah” then a few years later look at the same kink and go “actually yes”